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College Students and Mental Health: A One-Hour Zoom Webinar for Parents

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What are signs of possible mental health issues? What are the most effective ways to communicate with your student about mental health before leaving this fall? How do parents manage this big change (if a new college student) and work with boundaries, independence, etc.?

Free via Zoom on Thursday, August 18, 2022; 4:00 pm – 5:00 pm.
Join Dr. Contarino Panning for information and resources about helping your young adult children.

For more information and to register: evanstonpsychologists.com/webinar

In-Person Therapy Appointments Now Available at Our Renovated Office

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Mindful Psychology Associates is excited to now offer in-person therapy services at our renovated suite in the historic Carlson Building in downtown Evanston! We have heard your requests for wanting to see a therapist in person, and are now enjoying seeing some of our older and newer clients in person.

As a healthcare facility, we require everyone (staff and clients) to wear masks while in the waiting room or therapy offices. We have medical-grade air purifiers in the waiting room, as well as each office, as precautions to keep our office a healthy environment. Each client will need to sign a waiver agreeing to our COVID protocols and guidelines.

We will continue offering telehealth services through our Zoom for Healthcare platform as long as health insurance continues to reimburse telehealth. The last two years have shown the effectiveness and power of telehealth and we are happy to offer choices to our clients, especially the convenience and increased access that telehealth offers.

After a very busy winter and spring, several of our clinicians have openings for new clients. Summer is a great time to focus on improving your mental health or discussing emotional readiness for college.

Mindful Psychology Associates’ two newest clinicians are accepting referrals for new clients! Amy Bailey, LCPC, is a seasoned clinician who works with young adults and adults on issues around depression, anxiety, and trauma. She also does couples therapy for couples seeking to strengthen their relationship or address serious concerns. MPA’s newest clinician, Alison Stoll, LPC, works with teens, children over age 10, and adults seeking support regarding trauma and mood disorders. She is also trained in EMDR, which is an effective therapy to address the impact of trauma.

For all inquiries, please contact our admin team at 847-864-0600 or visit www.evanstonpsychologists.com/schedule to get started in our intake system.

Wishing everyone a relaxing and fun summer!

Navigating the Transition to College Life

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Much build-up is involved in the process of going to college, starting in high school if not sooner. Students are focused on building academic skills, as well as participating in sports, hobbies, and extracurricular activities in the pursuit of getting into the fill-in-the-blank (best, highest ranked, BIG 10, Ivy League, liberal arts) college or university. In addition, high schoolers are consumed with ACT/SAT test prep, essay writing, college visits, applications, and financial aid decisions.

Finally—congratulations, you’ve been accepted at a college or university that seems like a terrific fit, the finances have been worked out, and you feel excited about your next adventure where you will be spending the next 4 to 5 years! High school wraps up, you move into your dorm room, say goodbye to your family, and wait for your best life to start.

Despite many older people who have wistfully told you that college will be the “best years of your life” and seeing loads of Instagram posts with smiling, partying first year students … you’re not feeling it. You and your roommate don’t get along well. It’s hard going from the predictability of your high school life living in your family’s home to facing so many decisions in a strange, new place. You feel homesick and lonely and also guilty for feeling so bad while being at your top-choice school. People excitedly ask you how college life is going and you don’t want to be honest that you are struggling (and potentially let them down), so you say it is great! Frankly, you feel lost.

If you can resonate with these feelings, keep reading!

Starting college is a major adjustment in myriad ways—and a rich time for psychological development and growth. Quite often while going through life transitions, we have preconceived expectations and hopes of what we hope will happen in our new life. Yours may have looked something like: I moved into my dorm room and formed an easy connection with my roommate, enjoyed my classes, had a large group of friends to eat meals with in the cafeteria, and developed a thriving social life. I studied a lot but work was manageable, and had a great time partying with my friends.

So what happens when your expectations aren’t coming to fruition, or at least aren’t happening right now?

Human memory has an ironic way of preserving positive experiences while minimizing negative, boring, and stressful ones. This cognitive bias is referred to as Rosy Retrospection (see https://thedecisionlab.com/biases/rosy-retrospection/) where after time elapses, we tend to remember fun and happy memories and those hard times fade away. So when your Aunt Jackie reminisces with you about the fun parties and crazy antics she experienced in college, she’s also probably not recalling and remembering the difficult times.

What can you do to ease this transition?

Identify What You’re Feeling

You may be experiencing a wide range of feelings—sadness, homesickness, frustration, anxiety, excitement, confusion to name a few (and you may experience all of these during one day!) Having intense emotional experiences can be overwhelming and at times even exhausting. Checking in with yourself about your emotions, and deciding to accept them as valid and normal, can be a useful tool

Acknowledge Your Vulnerability

Major life transitions can be accompanied with questions and self-doubt—am I ‘doing it right?’ Will things get better? Why does it seem like everyone else is in a better place? During times of great change, many of us may feel vulnerable or helpless and uncomfortable with not being able to predict what may happen in the short or long term.

You may have heard the expression “comparison is the thief of joy.” The reality is that some college students adjust more seamlessly than others. Many factors may go into this such as having close friends at the same college, experiencing a sense of community quickly, or many other reasons. It may feel unfair that you’re having a more difficult time—it’s not fun, that is for certain. Acknowledging your discomfort and owning your own personal experience (rather than comparing yourself to your high school friends) can help.

Name Your Struggle

Be honest with yourself that you’re struggling—sometimes this is the hardest step. It might feel scary to acknowledge that things aren’t going as well as you had hoped. Talk to a trusted friend or supportive family member. It may be helpful to talk to an older friend who has already transitioned to college and seems to be doing well. You’re certainly not alone though in your experience even though others may also be concealing their true feelings or reluctant to share vulnerable feelings.

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Remember the Basics

Most new college students are learning more about how to take care of themselves without any family help. This can be hard, especially if you are living away from home for the first time. Things like establishing a healthy sleep schedule, making sure that you’re eating regular meals with a balanced diet, getting fresh air and walking every day may seem rudimentary, but making sure these areas of your life are in a healthy balance can also benefit your mental health. Stress can cause disruptions in eating, sleeping, and energy level, so attempting to establish healthy habits can be useful now and during more stressful times.

Connect with Others

Think about your friendships from high school or earlier—those friendships most likely took investing a lot of time (possibly even over years) and shared experiences to deepen. Researcher Jeff Hall found that it takes on average 50 hours spending time with someone to consider them a casual friend, and over 200 hours to develop a close friendship (see https://news.ku.edu/2018/03/06/study-reveals-number-hours-it-takes-make-friend).

Keep that in mind as you navigate these early budding friendships! So start small—commit to getting to know one hallmate, say hello to someone you sit next to in class, go to one extracurricular meeting. Take advantage of social connection activities that dorms and colleges offer in the first few months, and also know that you may feel uncomfortable or awkward at first.

Therapy Can Help

Most colleges and universities have a counseling center or referral resources for students. Focusing on students’ mental health has increased over the years with more students reporting anxiety and depression symptoms than ever before. It may be helpful to start therapy for additional support and guidance. This may be particularly relevant if you have a prior mental health history (anxiety, depression, eating disorder) and especially important if your anxiety or depressive symptoms feel severe or are impacting your ability to take care of yourself and attend classes.

I’ve been working as a Licensed Clinical Psychologist specializing in college student mental health for almost 20 years. I started my career working in university counseling centers and have spent the last 17 years in my outpatient practice helping many students smoothly make this major life transition with their mental health intact. I’ve worked with undergraduate students for their entire four (or more) years of their undergraduate degree, and have also worked with students just for a few sessions to help with adjustment.

All of the therapists at Mindful Psychology Associates are trained in working with college students and both the typical adjustment issues as well as treating more long-term concerns such as major depressive disorder or anxiety disorders.

By Dr. Jennifer Contarino Panning, Psy.D.
Founder/President, Mindful Psychology Associates PC

Just Another Pandemic School Year: Coping and Supporting College Students During the Global Pandemic

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It goes without saying that the global pandemic has left no one untouched as we now enter the year and a half mark when stay at home orders and mask mandates were placed in effect in an effort to stop the spread of COVID-19.

Sadly, colleges and universities are all too familiar with mounting feelings of stress as many institutions have seen an increase in rates of depression, anxiety, loneliness, and isolation. A survey completed by Boston University in 2021 that looked at nearly 33,000 college students from across the United States saw increased rates of anxiety and depression, with half of college students in 2020 showing signs of depression and anxiety. A shocking 83% of these same students expressed that their mental health had negatively impacted their academic performance over the past month. College students continue to carry the same high demands that come with collegiate academics, all while trying to navigate the unfamiliar territory of virtual courses, online exams, and Zoom group meetings. Additionally, students’ local support systems may not be as accessible and they may struggle with finding local supports.

Having worked side-by-side with college and university students as a clinician for the last couple years, I have seen the significant impact the pandemic has had on young adults — incoming freshmen expressing loneliness and isolation in a new and unfamiliar place, seniors feeling robbed of the pivotal graduation milestones, and so many students expressing fear and worry as the uncertainty of the global pandemic continues to weigh heavier on their shoulders as each day passes. These are, sadly, all too familiar themes.

We are all social creatures. Some of us may prefer less or more company than others, but one thing we all have in common is that we need and thrive on connection. Take away the ability for us to connect in ways that feel meaningful, such as being in the same physical space as another human being, and how could you not feel anxious, overwhelmed, and sad?

While all of us, regardless of age and education level, are social beings, college is a particularly unique time where young adults begin to explore who they authentically are, majority of which occurs in the context of our relationships with others. College life involves living, working, socializing, and learning together. The current pandemic, however, has taken away so many of these opportunities.

As both a human being and a clinician, I can empathize with the tremendous struggles facing college students as they try their hardest to navigate the continued global pandemic.

So, what can be done? In times that are undeniably unpredictable and stability is hard to find, is it possible to feel a sense of relief and “normalcy”? How do we support ourselves and/or those in our lives who are struggling?

  1. Acknowledge your experience. This may seem simple, and it is perhaps one of the most valuable things you could offer yourself or someone else. Each of our experiences are valid. The current state of the world is emotionally and physically draining, with each of us experiencing the impact differently. There may be a voice in your head saying “Well, everyone is going through the same thing and they all seem to be going about life just fine.” Yes, sadly we are all experiencing the global pandemic. It has impacted us all in both similar and different ways. However, that does not make your experience any less valid. Your suffering and struggles mean just as much. How we speak to ourselves has an impact on our internal experience. This invalidating voice will, more likely than not, leave you feeling dismissed, overwhelmed, and undervalued. A more validating internal dialogue of “Everyone is going through the same thing and still my feelings (i.e., sadness, anxiety, loneliness) matter” allows space for compassion and acceptance of where you are. It’s important to make sure these validating words feels authentic though. If my wording doesn’t click with you then find a compassionate way to speak to yourself that does.
  • See your accomplishments. Let’s face it, we are all often our own worst enemies. Particularly in times when we are already feeling emotional and physically depleted, it can be so easy as our day goes on to see all the things we “should” have done differently. For those of us who are self-identified perfectionists this is all too familiar. Sometimes we can feel that if we just focus on all the things we could maybe improve on, then maybe we will ultimately feel better. Our brains are trying to be helpful (sort of), but these impossibly high standards often leave us feeling even worse. It is challenging to go against the grain, and sometimes taking time at the end of our day to simply write out and reflect on what we are proud of or have accomplished can combat our more perfectionistic tendencies. No matter how small it may feel, even if it’s the fact that you got out of bed or took a shower, it matters. In our most difficult moments, it takes courage and strength to simply rise from our beds in the morning and your this deserves to be recognized.
  • Use your support system. Regardless of if you are an introvert or an extrovert (or somewhere in between), we all need connection. Our support system helps us to know and feel that we have a place to rest when we are exhausted and be a sounding board for our struggles. It can be hard to put our experiences into words, and sometimes even harder to have those experiences be heard by others. There is also healing that can occur from simply putting words to our internal world. I have been told by so many of the people I work with that simply having a space where they are heard is relieving in and of itself. If sharing it all doesn’t feel safe, that’s okay. Find a way that feels comfortable for you and allows you to still communicate what you need to say. Support systems don’t always have to be people either. For many (myself included), our pets can often be a huge part of our lives and are just as much a part of our support system as the people who are in it. Whatever and whoever is a part of that group, lean on them in a way that feels manageable and supportive for you.
  • Do what brings you peace. We all have different ways of grounding ourselves and decompressing after a difficult day. For me, any engagement with nature will likely be healing for me and it is often my go to in times of stress. Add my two dogs into the mix and it’s even better! What leaves you breathing a little easier? What helps you to feel whole? Does a particular kind of music usually help center you a bit? How about getting your thoughts out on paper and locked away in a personal journal? Whatever it is for you, I would challenge you to try just one. Even if it’s just for a few minutes. When we are struggling, the thought of doing something can be overwhelming and even feel impossible. Try setting a timer for just five minutes and giving yourself that designated time to focus on your peace. Remember, even if that invalidating voice is saying you shouldn’t need it, you deserve it and owe it to yourself just as much as you give it to others.

By Dr. Brittany Findlan, LPC, Psy.D.
Postdoctoral Fellow at Mindful Psychology Associates

Mood and Anxiety Group

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Have you recently completed an intensive outpatient program (IOP) and are transitioning back to outpatient care? Or are you finding that you could benefit from the support of a group in addition to your weekly individual therapy sessions?

Navigating the transition from an IOP to an outpatient therapy setting can feel challenging. During this time people are beginning to implement newly-learned skills with a decreased level of support from what they were recently receiving.

The Mood and Anxiety Group provides group support for individuals navigating this change. You will find a space to talk about where you are struggling and where you are progressing while receiving support from your peers.

Ideal candidates for this group are individuals who are stepping down from a higher level of care program or recognize they need more support than once-a-week therapy currently provides. This may also include individuals currently considering stepping up to or on a waiting list for a mood, anxiety, trauma, or dual diagnosis IOP who would like additional support. 

Facilitated by psychologist Amanda (Snell) Stagg, Psy.D.

  • Thursdays
  • 4:00 pm – 5:00 pm
  • minimum 8-week commitment
  • via Zoom
  • $50 (can bill BCBS or Aetna PPO insurances)

Register using our online Scheduling Form.

For more information, please email Dr. Stagg at amanda@evanstonpsychologists.com.

How to Help Your Employees’ Psychological Health as They Continue to Navigate the Pandemic

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The COVID-19 pandemic has taken a negative toll on mental health…many studies have shown the negative impact with increased depression and anxiety symptoms and as a result, Americans seeking mental health services in large numbers.

A primary task of an emotionally attuned leader is to create a psychologically safe and caring environment — especially during times of upheaval and transition. When faced with transition and change, humans tend to react with anxiety and uncertainty.

In an article for Medium — How to Help Your Employees’ Psychological Health as They Continue to Navigate the Pandemic — Dr. Jennifer Contarino Panning discusses the best practices that leaders can implement during this time of uncertainty including acknowledging the weird, practicing being vulnerable, validating emotions, and creating a feedback loop to help navigate ongoing change.

Read the article on Medium >>

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